Hi everyone!
You must note I am not a personal trainer nor have any sort of school or background in weight lifting. But I’ve been getting a lot of questions regarding my routines and how to start up strength training so I thought I’d give you my take on it!
Without further ado.. here’s answers to your questions:
Do you make up my own routines or do you have a personal trainer?
I make up my own routines based on research!
How do you come up with my exercises? How do you decide the order to perform them?
I read ALOT! I usually start with the big muscles first and the free weights before I concentrate on the smaller moves and move to machines. For example, I’ll start with chest and do the bench press before doing triceps. And I usually end my routine with body weight moves like push ups, decline push ups, or tricep dips. I don’t like to use machines except for the occasional Smith Machine for bench press which aids in my safety. Machines don’t seem to work my muscles properly and which might have to do with my height.. I don’t fit in them right! You get the best bang for your buck with more free weights, in my opinion.
How often do you change my routine?
It depends. I usually find a split and stick with the same split for a month or two, but I change the routine often. If I do the same moves I change around the reps, the weight, the sets or the way I perform them (pyramids, reverse pyramids, etc.)
Have you always lifted “heavy”?
No! In fact, I was looking through my past workouts from this past summer and I have gained so much more strength! I was doing the upright row with 10 pounds, and now I can do it with 60! And that’s been in 7 months.. with determination you can do it!
How can I start doing strength training without a gym membership? I’m just starting out!
There’s a couple workout DVD’s I’d recommend. The Get Ripped series (http://www.amazon.com/Get-Ripped-Jari-Love-1000/dp/B000GTJSVM) is one of my favorites! You use dumbbells ranging from 3 pounds to 15 pounds (just depends on your fitness level) and it works you really good.. I”m always sore the next day! I’ve tried doing weights on my own at home and I usually get bored but DVDs make it really interesting and fun. Check out ebay or even your local Goodwill.. they usually have them for cheap!
If you don’t want to use DVDS, you could also start out doing some body weight exercises- some good ones are squats, walking lunges, the plank, burpees, push ups, etc. The push up is a really good place to get started- once you get them down you’ll be super strong! Don’t do girl push ups.. go for the real ones! Even if you can only do one, just work at it and I’ll promise you’ll get better. A year ago I could barely do 10 and now I can do 90! (Well, with some rest in between sets
) Plyometrics is also really good. Try doing some jumping lunges, jump squats, etc.. those are really good toners too!
If you do have a gym membership and are just starting out, I found that going to group fitness classes that includes weights also really helps!
Also look through magazines, websites, or watch trainers work with clients at the gym. You can usually learn how to do moves that way. For some ideas on where to start check out these routines:
http://www.stumptuous.com/workout-1
http://www.stumptuous.com/the-less-thinking-more-doing-starter-program
http://www.stumptuous.com/workout-2
Should I do cardio or weights first?
I recommend weights before your cardio because that’s when your strongest! Or at least I am
What equipment/accessories do I bring to the gym?
I bring my heart rate monitor, weight lifting gloves, my strength training notebook and a pen, a water bottle, and my Ipod of course!
What are some resources you recommend?
My favorite websites are: bodybuilding.com and oxygenmag.com
I also love the magazines Oxygen and FitnessRX. They are a little more expensive but I save them and look at them over and over!
Also, check out the book “The New Rules of Lifting For Women”. I bought it for 10 bucks at Walmart.com, and it’s great! It gives you tons of information as well as a workout plan and it tells you how many calories you should be eating. It focuses on the big muscles, and you only have to lift 3 days a week.
If I’m new, how heavy should I lift?
Don’t start out light- lift what is heavy for you! I mean, don’t go try and pick up what I’m doing, because what’s heavy for me might not be heavy or might be too heavy for others. You want to lift weights that is heavy for you. So if 10 pounds is heavy for you, do the 10 pounds. A good rule to go by is you want to be struggling on the last rep, and if you can do more than 12 reps you need to do a heavier weight.
Any other tips?
Try to lift heavy! I used to be afraid and think I couldn’t do it. But I wasn’t seeing any results! In my experience, if you feel your arms burning that’s more endurance type weight lifting and you won’t get toned or muscle from that. I’ve seen the best results from when my arms literally will not do that last rep.. that’s what you want! Remember, this is just my opinion though.
Don’t be discouraged! I’m seriously not that strong compared to others. But I don’t care-I work hard and lift at my level. Work hard and don’t give up!
And DON’T be embarrassed or intimidated. Especially by those big guys! I used to be so embarrassed to lift weights. Now I don’t care- most of those guys still look at me but I just go on about my business.
And have a plan! I just started planning my workouts in advance and it makes it so much better. Write down what exercises you plan on doing and then record the weight you used and how many reps you did. Then you have something to work off of and don’t just wander around the gym trying to figure out what to do.


Great info!! Thanks for sharing your tips!! Very inspirational!!
Enjoy the rest of your time in AZ!!
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Thanks for these tips, very helpful.
Have fun with the BF in AZ
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This was a great post, April and I am not into weights, it’s just not my thing. Yoga is my thing
But I respect, of course!, everyone’s passion and what works for their body. I love this part:I make up my own routines! I’d love to someday have a trainer but right now I can’t really afford it. So I make them up on my own!
Amen. That’s how i am with my own personal yoga practice and always encourage ppl to just go for it,wing it, same in the kitchen. Worst that can happen is you throw it out
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this post could not have come at a better time, girl! I have been reallly interested in starting up weight training and in pursuit of some great tips. Thanks!
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awesome post girl
i need to start upping my weights at the gym so i can diesel myself up a wee bit!
hope you’re having a good time with the boyf!
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Was wondering where you are! Have fun in AZ!
I plan on hitting the weights HARD when I get home!
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Love this post! I am on suck a weight training kick lately…cardio is a thing of the past…haha, just kidding, but it has taken a back seat to weights for me!
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I am trying to do the lift heavy thing too. But it hurts so much
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After trial in error I have found what works for me…and that is a healthy balance of diet, exercise, sleep and social support! I’m a girl that researches and hires trainers that can train my body that works with my lifestyle and I shake things up 4-6 weeks so I can optimize my diet and my training.
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Great post! Thanks for all the tips…I’m a newbie to weight training so this is really helpful!
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Great basics!!! I am a bit different than you in some regards BUT I have been doing this for years so my bod wants things differently, I am not trying to get bigger, my body type & how I gain is different as well.. at least per our emails.
Muscle & Fitness Hers is also a great magazine for exercises. I love Oxygen mag too!
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april! i missed reading your oh so nutritional eats woman. get at those weights girl, do you thang
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Thanks for the tips!
I was wondering what your opinion of Body Pump classes is, if you’ve ever been to one? I tried a few but since I’m a beginner and have bone/joint issues I found that I was pushed to lift weights which were far too heavy…pressurised in a negative way. I’m also skeptical that they’re actually a decent form of strength training due to the high reps but I thought I’d ask an expert
<3
~Jess~
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Babe, those guys are looking at you because they are impressed and think you are gorgeous!
I REALLY enjoyed this. My strength training has been down lately due to LIFE and I am looking forward to getting back into it.
<3 jess
xoxo
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thanks for answering all these questions
xoxo
shelley
http://findinghappinessandhealth.wordpress.com
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Great info chickie! I hope you guys are having a great time
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Awesome info April!!! Enjoy your time with Bryon!
xxoo
Heather
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thanks for the tips and advice!
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Great post! I definitely agree with your tips about changing things up, using mostly free weights, and planning your workouts before getting to the gym. Also, I used to be afraid to “lift heavy” too, until I starting doing it, and found my workouts were so much better! Less reps, more weight is awesome
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I get so intimidated by the really macho guys in the gym! Some of them have SO MUCH MUSCLE, I think it’s almost too much! I feel so out of place in the weights section! I usually console myself by saying that my (female) hormones won’t let me ever get that disproportionate… and that weight training, for women, gives completely different results!
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Hi there, i’ve just found your great blog and am really interested in strength training. I have a gym membership and am thinking of starting on the weight machines; focussing on abs and arms. What do you reckon?
Oh, and I’m a fellow nurse! Well, I’m a student nurse in the UK and will be registered by the end of next year
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April Reply:
August 24th, 2010 at 6:56 am
Hi Sarah! I would stay away from machines- dumbbells and barbells are most effective
And don’t just limit to abs and arms! Do your total body- in fact, working legs and back gives you the most calorie burn when your at rest since they are the biggest muscles. Shoot me an email if you want and I’d be more than happy to give you more info!
And congrats on nursing!! That is great!
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